The Best of #SexFraud Ignorance From Around the Globe!

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Society’s Cockeyed Sense of Sexual Exploitation

Here are some recent comments I’ve received or seen, on global internet sites and discussion boards, that evidence the total confusion of society over what constitutes sexual assault by fraud and why it’s a crime. My response, when I feel a response is warranted, follows the question in italics. 

Jesse:

So if a woman has fake boobs, I think that should be a “crime on par with rape”. After all, we are all equal under the law, and if a woman lies, she may be GUILTY of a class A Misdemeanor….

Really? On what planet?

Jason:

So if a man tells you he only dates natural blondes (wants kids one day with blonde hair) and you lie about dying your hair and say you are a natural blonde, that is ok? In looking for a potential mate, it is ok to lie about your physical characteristics? Seriously? They only true reason to have sex is to pass on genes to children, but it is ok to lie about your genes? Lie about your income and it is rape though? You people are crazy.

I support your law, so long as it is truly fair. Which means women don’t get to lie about their appearance anymore. Since that will never happen, I label you all hypocrites.

Lying about your genes is not ok Jason.

Miriam:

Your comparing rape to a fraudulent car sale… your absolutely INSANE! My guess is that youve been hurt by men in the past, maybe you should sell some of the cats you own, or possibly stop dating idiots… either way, maybe your meant to be alone…

Analogies may be tough for a person who doesn’t know the difference between “your” and “you’re”. You seem to lack compassion and it’s clouding your judgement.

Flailer:

By these standards EVERY woman wearing makeup is a RAPIST.
Boob-job? Rapist!!!!
Fake nails? RAPIST!!!!
Lies about her age? RAPIST!!!!!!

This is the FSA (the FUKED up States of America)

Gee, isn’t Leftism, Statism, Feminism fun?
(No. No it isnt.)

Neither is ignorance. It’s sad.

Use your eyes, that’s why God gave them to you. If her appearance without enhancements is important to you, ask her to take them off BEFORE you engage in sex. And the same is true on both sides of the gender aisle.

Henry Hub:

So if some little gold-digger is on the hunt for a rich guy to support her for the rest of her life engages in sex with some guy because he’s rich and later finds out he’s not, it’s rape. This is the most ludicrous thing I ever heard! You people need to get back in touch with reality LOL.

How ’bout changing reality so people don’t get harmed?

Britain Bush

My point exactly. It’s not a big deal. Get over it. We don’t need to prosecute people for silly lies.

Except when “silly lies” rape people. An easy, convenient triviality to the offender can have a major impact on the victim’s life. We’re talking about penetrating their sex organs based on a triviality to the offender. How dismissive of the victim’s right to self determination can you get? If it’s so minor, don’t do it! 

Chris:

There was a time when having sex with someone for financial gain was called prostitution. Are we turning intimacy into a putocartic commodity now? This bill should be called the Jersey Whore Act.

Many of the hoaxes created in internet dating are not only for the purpose of defrauding someone for sex, but as a means to scam them for money as well. The scammer is, indeed, a prostitute, whether male or female. When you’re having sex with a prostitute, don’t you think you’re entitled to know?

BigC

I told a chick that I drove a Ferrari and she immediately wanted to have sex with me. Afterwards we were sitting on the couch and she asks “Can you give me a ride home now? It’s getting kinda late.” and my roommate heard her and responded “On what, his bike??” Her jaw immediately dropped and she looked at me and I told her “yea it’s true, I only drive a bicycle.” I couldn’t stop laughing. It was terrific.

Could you be more of a jerk if you tried? Nope, I don’t think so!! But, unfortunately, what you are bragging about would constitute a “he said, she said,” and lack sufficient evidence to be prosecuted. And jumping into the sack with you without any attempt at discovery of the facts is just plain irresponsible behavior that does not warrant a case.

RB Joe

In the end people lie to themselves and believe what they want to believe.

Hmmm… Except when they’re deliberately lied to!

Mens Rights Movement

Lies by members of privileged gender is legal, moral and good… when the man lies, he is a rapist!!! We are living in an anti-men society. Such society cannot be corrected unless Men organize themselves for their rights and fair society.

Ghheez- What about Gender Neutral do you not understand?

ZAStrong

This is just more evidence that feminism is a mental disorder. The feminist movement is a vile, disgusting communist/globalist front with the intent of driving a wedge between men and women, undermining the traditional institution of marriage, destroying families, and collapsing our culture. It is an unnatural and perverse philosophy that is gnawing at and corrupting the hearts and minds of both women and men in our society.

No comment.

Anyone who has more ridiculous objections to add, or spots an outrageous comment from elsewhere, is invited to post it below.

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22 thoughts on “The Best of #SexFraud Ignorance From Around the Globe!”

  1. I dont even know where to begin to comment on all the misogynistic comments on here, other than to say that if all these people realized the law could potentially used by males to prosecute women, they would certainly be in favor of this law. And, if males think the law is silly, they certainly wouldnt need to avail themselves of it, if for example, a woman lied about the color of her hair. The harshness of some people’s comments on here, shows the need for such a law — they wouldnt bother using such vitriolic speech if defrauding women werent so important to them.

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    1. Negative responses give us a pretty clear picture of the person’s character. Why would anyone object unless they want to preserve their ability to lie in order to get sex, or protect someone else’s ability to do so?

      People who don’t lie as a means of seduction would have no problem with the passage of this legislation. People who do lie, clearly show how little they respect other people’s sexual autonomy. They simply don’t give a damn that they’re defiling another human being. To them, that’s their idea of a good time. They’re emotionally disturbed!

      And yes, a law to send them to jail when they do it is the only way they will stop! Just look at their remarks. They feel perfectly entitled to carry on this way.

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      1. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Rape by fraud. so a guy fibs to get in your tiny shorts/skirts? and you want to yell rape? you feminazis are delusional to the fullest extent. IVe lied hundreds to get laid. like oh i love that band ect. ill keep doing it. a little white lie to get some is part of human nature. suck it up and swallow girls

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        1. And hopefully, the next woman, or man, you do that to will know you are sexually exploiting them and be repulsed by your behavior. Now that society is having this discussion, more people will see you as a CAD when you do so.

          Keep in mind that most little white lies are not prosecutorial. That doesn’t make it ok, however. Do you think so little about yourself that lying is your idea of sex? I’ll bet you think you’re perfectly normal.

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          1. This sounds like more Feminist victimization culture rhetoric. If a woman drops her panties because she believes a man has money, power, or something desirable — only to find out he misrepresented himself — why is she not accountable for her decision?

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  2. Here’s a new comment I received from a man named Vince:

    So a woman can be arrested for rape, just for lying about her age to a man before they engage in sex. Do you realize how ridiculous that is, and just how unworkable what you are suggesting is? People tell tons of lies, if someone wanted to be vindictive against someone and have them up for rape, they can normally choose from a smorgasbord of lies that the other person has told. This suggestion is so ill thought out and so problematic it’s quite frankly ridiculous.

    And here’s my response:

    In 8 states, a child who suffers statutory rape is considered a rapist if they have lied about their age. “Rape by Fraud” is an accepted defense for statutory rape in those states. But in only 2 of the 8, AL and TN, does their penal code punish an adult (who should know better,) when the same lie comes out of their mouth. Six of those eight states recognize lying about age as a form of rape, but only hold children accountable for doing so.

    It is not the offender’s right to determine what is trivial or harmless to their victim. If they thought it didn’t matter, they would not have lied.

    Cases of lies about age are one of the reasons I recommend that people check the person’s ID before the relationship gets to the bedroom. In this, or any case of rape by fraud, significant proof of wrongdoing must be present and the victim must act responsibly. If the offender blocks the attempt to establish age by presenting false documentation, they are conducting rape by fraud.

    Sexual Assault by Fraud law will deter offenders from the “smorgasbord” of lies that you admit victims are being barraged with in our current society.

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  3. (The contraction of “it is” = it’s & “You are” = You’re, not YOUR)

    OKAY – SO IT IS VERY OBVIOUS THAT IF YOU HAVE NOT EXPERIENCED THE DEVASTATING EFFECTS OF THIS CRIME, YOU JUST DON’T GET IT!!!

    I will try to keep my expletives to a minimum with this obviously ignorant crowd.

    I AM A MALE first off. A loving & caring male. I married a woman from another country and brought her to Canada as my legal bride.

    Over time things just didn’t seem right but I could never put my finger on it. Finally she told me we had to divorce due to her faith of Santeria.
    She had been here just under 3 years, hmmm, just close enough not to allow me to cancel the sponsorship and have her deported, coincidence? I DON’T THINK SO!

    Obviously devastated after all the support and work I had put into bringing her to Canada. I was looking forward to a full and rewarding life.

    Then, I FINALLY GOT TO THE TRUTH.

    FINDING ONE TEXT MESSAGE BACK TO HER “BROTHER” WAS ALL IT TOOK TO GET TO THE TRUTH.

    “Baby I love your very MUCH, TOMORROW IS OUR 5TH WEDDING ANNIVERSAY, I MISS YOU VERY MUCH, YOU ARE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE…”

    SHE HAD ANOTHER HUSBAND BACK HOME

    I WORKED DILIGENTLY BEHIND THE SCENES (YES I WAS DECEIVING HER TO PROTECT MY ASS(ETS).

    GOT EVERYTHING IN PLACE TO KEEP MY HOUSE, NOT HAVE TO PAY SUPPORT, BROUGHT THE EVIDENCE TO CBSA & IMMIGRATION CANADA WHO DID NOTHING.

    AT THAT POINT WE HAD BEEN MARRIED 8 YEARS. I WAS ABLE TO RECONSTRUCT EVERY DECEPTION SHE PULLED ON ME BY RECALLING VISITS TO HER BEFORE SHE ARRIVED AND WAS ABLE TO GET A GRIP ON THE REALITY OF WHAT HAD HAPPENED TO ME;

    IMMIGRATION FRAUD.

    HOW COULD THIS HAPPEN? BECAUSE I AM A CARING, TRUSTING PERSON.

    TO MAKE SENSE OUT OF IT I STUDIED SOCIOPATHS, PSYCHOPATHS AND NARCISSISTS IN-DEPTH. I HAD MY ANSWERS.

    NOW I AM FAR MORE AWARE OF THIS DECEPTION, THE TECHNIQUES USED (GASLIGHTING FOR EXAMPLE) AND HOW PREVALENT IT IS.

    I SUGGEST ALL OF THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE COMMENTED HERE, ABOVE, GIVE THEIR HEADS A REALLY STRONG SHAKE.

    THIS IS A CRIME

    A CRIME OF MISREPRESENTATION USING A PERSON’S (MY) VULNERABILITIES TO GAIN SOMETHING FOR THE PERPETRATOR, SOME END, IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT THEIR AGENDA IS, IT IS A CRIME.

    IT IS STILL FRAUD, RAPE BY FRAUD IS THE ONLY WAY TO DESCRIBE THIS “EMOTIONAL RAPE” SCENARIO.

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    1. Care-

      My heart goes out to you for the difficult fraud you endured.

      You’ve introduced an interesting concept into the mix… “emotional rape.” When a person’s highest emotion is taken from them by fraud, we term that “emotional rape.” When a person is sexually violated through the use of fraud, “rape by fraud” or “sexual assault by fraud” takes place. In your case, it seems you endured both.

      Cases of emotional rape and rape by fraud are often conducted as a means to an ulterior motive. Immigration status stacks up very high on the list. Bilking assets is another. Business connections is yet another.

      These cases are very difficult to prove and the authorities often simply turn a blind eye, They don’t want to put in the leg work needed to create justice for the victim. Only in cases where the government sees a significant financial gain, or in violent cases where there is a clear “bad guy” that they’ill be recognized for bringing down, will they act appropriately. More frequently, they simply ignore the complaint.

      Thanks for stepping forward with the facts in your case.

      Joyce

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  4. The good news is that the subject is finally being openly discussed! Changes in perception don’t happen without dialogue. And the first reaction to something that breaks new ground or takes people out of their comfort zone, is often ridicule.

    I look at every negative comment as an opportunity to change society’s misconceptions and bring about acceptance and awareness over this issue.

    It’s enlightening to see how low morality has sunk that people can really think the way they do. And it makes me even more determined to make a difference.

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  5. “The feminist movement is a vile, disgusting communist/globalist front with the intent of driving a wedge between men and women, undermining the traditional institution of marriage, destroying families, and collapsing our culture”

    What is vile and disgusting are MEN who believe a ‘WHITE LIE” is needed for SEX. How far do white lies go?

    Hmmmmmm for ME?? 5 years, over 20K, promises, and STDs. THATS HOW VILE AND DISGUSTING FEMINISM IS…ENOUGH TO MAKE WOMEN TAKE A STAND AGAINST BEING RAPED BY FRAUD AND DECEPTION WHILE MEN STICK THEIR WILLY IN ANYTHING THAT SMILES —- IF I DONT APPROVE OF HER WHY SHOULD HE BEHIND MY BACK? BECAUSE IM A FEMINIST? OR A WOMAN WHO IS TAUGHT TO LOVE AND HONOR A MAN I LOVE???

    These people are absolutely IGNORANT until it happens to their children (IF THEY CARE…sounds like they may blame their DAUGHTER FOR DRESSING THE WRONG WAY WHEN IT HAPPENS TO HER)

    If it ISNT RAPE, THEN VICTIM BLAMING IS THE ANSWER?

    My MENTALLY Disordered Father EMOTIONALLY MOLESTED his children, therefore making it HARD TO DISCERN BETWEEN GOOD AND BAD MEN……

    Is it ABUSE SINCE I WAS ABUSED AS A CHILD or was a 5 year old to blame for being born onto a lying and deceiving manipulator who harmed me, my mother and MANY WOMEN and HIS ‘ILLEGITIMATE CHILDREN’??

    Victim Blamers are a SIN TO HUMANITY, and I pray they do NOT have children, otherwise I see some ‘Daddy Issues’ happening right before our enlightened and VILE FEMINIST EYES….

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  6. Here are some for your collection, Joyce:

    “Wronged maidens today need not sorrow.
    Ancient law provides means they can borrow:
    Rape by fraud, don’t you see,
    Is as plain as can be,
    If he claimed “I’ll respect thee tomorrow.”

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    “What if a man tells her its a diamond, but its really cubic zarconia? Is that grounds for rape by deceit?”

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    James Bond would have several hundred counts of “rape by fraud.”

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    “If this legislation passes, here is how I predict future sexual encounters will occur:

    “Greetings, I am approaching you with intent to copulate. I have brought my lawyer with me, who will provide my financial records, medical history, family history, and vaccination charts. Please have your lawyer look over these documents and authenticate them. I have taken the liberty of bringing a notary, please sign this agreement which states that you have reviewed these documents and are copulating with me of your own free will. If you do not intend to copulate, please initial here, and here, and sign here, stating that I have not approached you threateningly or engaged in a “rape stare” of any kind. Thank, and have a wonderful evening.”

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    “I find this idea of rape through deception utterly ridiculous. If we accept that we all misrepresent ourselves even to ourselves (through various defense mechanisms like rationalizations of our own behavior), let alone to others to a smaller or larger extent throughout our whole life, then the likely outcome of such laws would be that we’d all be locked up and the only sex we’d get would be in jail from same sex partners…”

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    1. I think that some men NEED the advice of a lawyer before “COPULATING”…if it’s THAT IMPORTANT, why not settle down. Why LIE? YOU AND MANY OTHERS ARE THE REASON PHYSICAL RAPE CASES GET DISMISSED. Because women are dismissed over a Man’s perverse behavior.

      Have you ever been raped or ANYONE ON THIS THREAD?

      I HAVE. PHYSICALLY AND THROUGH DECEIT.

      I PREFER PHSYICAL RAPE BY A STRANGER OVER MY EXPERIENCE WITH BEING DECEIVED FOR SEX AND MONEY AND FOOD AND ATTENTION…..

      Unless ANYONE has experienced BOTH, can they ever really have a true opinion.

      I’d much rather 1 instance of physical rape. Its control using force.

      Someone lying to me for years, to have something to have sex with on a regular basis? Its control using the mind, and soul.

      Would blamers rather have their sould ripped from their being or a quick punch? Ive had both and I assure you Rape by deception CHANGES you as a HUMAN BEING………MIND – BODY – SOUL….it ruins the wives and daughters of tomorrow…it causes trust issues…

      If people are UNEDUCATED it causes stupid comments like above.

      JAMES BOND IS A MOVIE….Are you asking if JAMES BOND SB accused of RAPE?

      Yeah, along with Spiderman…..foolish people….

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      1. Susan-

        Thanks you for bravely stepping forward on the issue of violent rape vs rape by fraud. So frequently, I hear people object to this law on the basis that it somehow undermines the sympathy that violent rape victims should be accorded.

        I have stated countless times that violent rape is a heinous act. But punishing other defilement in no way takes away from the recognition violent rape victims deserve. And certainly being dismissive of another’s pain over defilement, that was achieved in a different manner, does not do so. If that premise held true, we would ignore the crime of theft, which does not involve violence, because victims suffer robbery, which involves violence. Instead, both, indeed, are criminal offenses.

        You have raised another good point which is that violent rape often occurs once; whereas, rape by fraud happens multiple times over an extended period. When the victim becomes aware of the deceit, they have to grapple with the overwhelming sense that they were raped on multiple occasions…. and even more horribly, by a person they loved and trusted. It undermines their entire value system and makes them feel horribly vulnerable because they were fooled into trusting the offender and can no longer feel confident in their own instincts toward self preservation.They simply can no longer feel safe.

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        1. This is absolutely the case. The issue is that people excuse a male by giving him positive names like “playboy” or “casanova” for being sexually promiscuous…No one thinks of the children…In many cases, men trap women by getting them pregnant…There is a psychology behind perpetrators, as they lack empathy. I’m not calling all liars psychopaths or narcissists, but I’m calling all psychopaths and narcissists, liars.

          There is a diagnostic manual for the Antisocial Personality, which affects 5 percent of our population. Therefore, millions of people in the United States are affected by pathological liars and con artists. This is what they do for a living. Due to their lack of empathy, they are so skilled that the FBI has training on how to detect them, because they lack vocal or emotional shifts while being confronted. They can walk away from many situations, unscathed.

          Just as many women who are victims, the perpetrator is also above average in intelligence, so it’s not a game of who is “dumb enough to fall for it”, but it IS a game for these personality types. People without empathy have no remorse so they can rape physically or mentally, without problem. Nor will they get caught bc these types can also be high functioning members of society. Abuse by deceit is what it is.

          If a person tricked me into open heart surgery because he decided to open an office, bought the equipment, and performed surgery, killing me in the process, is he a fraud or was I not educated enough to check his background?

          Fraud is fraud, and I support this cause because I’ve been a victim of abuse, emotional and physical, and continue to fight until I receive the justice I deserve for myself and all women of the future.

          Maybe Casanova will think twice before forgetting to tell a woman he has herpes, or HIV the next time….and it won’t be HER fault for not asking for medical records…accountability is needed somewhere and it begins with the accountable party who frauds another. Not the other way around.

          Thank you for making change for women. There are millions of us, and children who suffer victim blaming and it needs to stop. GOD BLESS YOU FOR GIVING US HOPE.

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      1. These people leaving their vile and ridiculous comments on every article on this topic just have no clue, no idea. I blame a lot of that on the authors of the articles — they don’t get it, so they can’t explain it to anyone else.

        Susan very clearly conveys the pain that results from this heinous behavior. I wish her well.

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